2/16/11

Sex, dating, breakups, divorce, and lies..what's becoming of this world?!

There are a few things in this world that people strive for in a dating/intimate relationship, that’s commitment, love, loyalty, and trustworthiness. This is all on top of the intimate parts of the relationship (more along the lines of sex or otherwise). But sometimes you have “friends” or someone else that tries to come between you and your significant other. This is where lies, cheating, and general mistrust come into play. But I don’t think the answer is to harass or stalk your significant other. I believe the answer is communication and trust. If both parties aren’t feeling compensated in the relationship and the communication is shut down how do you expect your significant other to stay faithful. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t say cheating is okay. I say if you didn’t do everything to keep your significant other around and faithful to you don’t be surprised if they want to leave and find love and/or pleasure somewhere else. If you communicate with your significant other and actually listen to them as well as take steps to compromise and make steps in the direction of said compensation then, in my opinion, the relationship with you and your significant other will be much better off.